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Tuesday 27 January 2015

Rapper Eve talks having a back-up/reserve boyfriend when you're in a relationship

If you get to a certain age, especially after you hit 30, most women start to think about settling down. Many people will tell you that at that age, you must have your back up/reserve guy, in case the man you're with disappoints you. The reserve guy is not necessarily someone you are dating or even sleeping with, he's just someone that really likes you but instead of telling him you're not available, you lead him on, keep him interested until your main man marries you. He's like our 'side man'...:-)

Anyway, rapper Eve sat down with Huffington Post live where she talked about the pressure to marry, having her reserve man and how she broke it the news of her engagement to him. Read after the cut...


On if she had a backup/reserve guy
"Yeah, I kind of did. I think every girl has a reserve. They are good friends

On how she broke to the news of her engagement to him
"I'm getting married, so sorry! (laughs). I think that person knows. I think the reserve always knows because obviously that person is the person that you are too busy for and then you're like ..'Yeah, I'm alone tonight...let's hang out!'. I think they know

On if she ever felt pressured to get married
"I didn't. I didn't pressure myself that way. It was more about having children actually. Like 'Oh, I'm getting older' and wanting to have kids in a marriage and not marriage specifically

On if she plans to have kids
"I hope so. We are happy in our newlywed bliss at the moment. We can't wait but not rushing.

Eve began dating British entrepreneur Maximillion Cooper in 2010. They became engaged on December 25, 2013 and got married in June 2014. Max has four kids from a previous marriage.

87 comments:

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

WhoThemHelp??

Unknown said...

Matured lady

Ike Ani said...

What a thought! Anyway its all about Choice. www.ikeani.blogspot.com

Unknown said...

True talk.
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Unknown said...

Why do you want to spoil people's mind over relationship eve that's not fair

Unknown said...

True talk.
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Debbilicious said...

Na sooo..most ladies does..buh me I don't av reserve guy ooo..lol..MTN backup plan..hehehe

Unknown said...

Well no girl is a saint ...so every girl has up to at least 3boys....u may not date them or sex them all....just one as a coach....one for love ....and one for heart reservoir....lol


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Unknown said...

She's just been naive..
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Unknown said...

heaven knows I dint read D's post I'm all about ....
Linda post JAMB result na

Unknown said...

Why is that? Common is absurd to double date.... If u don't hv confidence in ur r/ship y not just quit and move on instead of double dating...those dat gon make u feel better?

9jahub.com said...

na wa

Unknown said...

Good for her

Bonita Bislam said...

Hahahaha @ reserve man! Her head dey dia lolzzzz

Unknown said...

True talk, Eve darling. Make dem ladies continue to dey deny having a side guy but d truth remains. Linda take note!

RunUp said...

Thats wicked, anybody better dont make me a reserve or bench warmer, it wont be funny at all

Anonymous said...

YESS! i AGREEE. SHE'S SO RIGHT! na d kain tin wey Naija girls suppose do o. cuz these Naija men they are indecisive goats. i dey look for my own back up naw. e be like say my boo's parents no like me,nd the guy sef is not as affectionate as before! make i help my self out before yawa gas.

Pink Bananas said...

Yes almost every girl has a reserve, I use to but not anymore

Qinat said...

So happy for her.....thats reasonable! Reserved

Ryan said...

May God open my eyes to sharply decipher a serious lady from the one Wey dey find reserve guy for this life oooh...WTH nah?¿? I still love eve sha

Unknown said...

I think Eve is right about the back up man tingy, u cnt just put all ur eggs in one basket

Juleslouis said...

Lol @ side guy. But i think most ladies just unconciously or conciously has that reserve guy. They r mostly friendzoned. Lol! I used to enjoy this ladies music then o. She just dumped her career one side. I guess handling kids requires sacrificies tho.

Unknown said...

It's wickedness to know ure not really intrested in som1 and you lead them on,play them and deceive them,will u be happy if som1 treats u like that??thast not a proper thing to do,only som1 witout conscience wld do that.if you won't eat somtin,dont bother smelling it.

Unknown said...

Love this girl,she knows what she wants

morley*A said...

Hmmmmmmm

morley*A said...

Hmmmmmmm

Unknown said...

Oooh oooh. So sorry for the reserve guy. Girls do that many a times

Unknown said...

Is that baby a human or a doll?

Ochuko Arhiakpore said...

Four kids?dats huge_ reserve guy just incase serious boyfriend f**kup.Don't cast ur eggs in one basket.Ladies please take note.

GEJ till 2019

!!BIG BROTHER SAYS SO!!

Unknown said...

What rubbish so what now happens to the back up guy??? am sure he would av bin thinking she would still change her mind! the poor dude will have to start all over again damn it!!!

Unknown said...

SIDE CHICK OR GUY WEY DEY FIRE YOU....AKA.....HMMMMMMM

Anonymous said...

It's only right. Men have their side chicks, we have our reserve. LOL.

ary said...

Happy for her, happiness comes to you in different shapes and numbers, just grab it and enjoy! No need to fuss.

HAWTTALKWITHTOSAN said...

Guys have side chick as well. the diff is ladies may no sleep with theirs

Unknown said...

reserve boyfriend???? some guy will belong to that category...God forbid bad thing




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Eze said...

It

Anonymous said...

Eve u be correct babe........after all some guys to dey get reserve aka side chick

Unknown said...

She spoke well even car's have spare tyre...

So it essential to hav spare too when in r/ship@a particular age to avoid heart break in case d need b.

Blog It With Olivia said...

Don't really support this keeping a side guy ish....what if †Ñ’ξ main guy finds out αи∂ all that? If ur dating one, pls stick to one αи∂ remain faithful αи∂ when ur done wit him, u knw ur actually done. Dat side guy sruff doesn't make sense...αи∂ gals will say they don't like putting all dia eggs in one basket...sounds vain to me a

Unknown said...

Still looking beautiful. Nicely said.

Unknown said...

Lol. Umunwoke what haven't we heard.. Its true sha every lady has that, but I wonder what the guy keeps waiting for. what now happens to the guy after main guy marries her.

Unknown said...

I don't blame u.

African foodstuff and Raw Materials said...

True talk, cos dnt trust den guys, they can fuck Ʊ up ehn..

ebonyz... said...

Glad she's happy

Unknown said...

Happy for her

Unknown said...

Lol. I pity u o. U are about to turn urself into a customer care service.

Unknown said...

As for me sha. I don't have a problem with my girlfriend having a backup plan. But the only time wen are gonna be having issues is when I stop being the highest shareholder.

Unknown said...

Okay, seen

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Anonymous said...

U mean to tell me that I should hang around and wait for your bf whom you are doing the main thing with to marry you before I move on..i must be a clown to allow a girl to kp me as reserve or back up..equivalent to friend zone.nothing goes on in friend zone, I mean no canal knowledge... No waiting around for anyone.#OYO#OFF#

Unknown said...

The obvious fact is that once I notice any side guy believe me I'm out completely. No woman will take me as an optional. Congrat eve

Anonymous said...

Permanent beggar. Must u hv a help me mentality? U who u help?

Anonymous said...

Lol. Well said Eve. Its a reality.

Subomi said...

nice.. so we gotta have reserve chicks too

Sassy Blog said...

Hmmmm

Sassy Blog said...

Eve I loved ur music den I guess every tin in life is Time and Season
God bless ur Home

Unknown said...

B chilling and waiting 4 som1 to help u

Unknown said...

Some girls now go copy forgetting that they're in Africa ,if your guy catches you with the so called reserve guy I pity your life.

Rozaybaba said...

But it's kinda Safe... For Safety reasons tho

Anonymous said...

Eve thank you.....for l;letting us know that all gals have at least 3 boyfriends....and are flirts...www.iwonpopular.com

Anonymous said...

Love u gal. Samuel_augustina@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Love u gal. Samuel_augustina@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Love u gal. Samuel_augustina@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

I have oh. One reserve one back up ! Deny all u want .. Yawa don gas

Anonymous said...

I wish I had all 3. It's not very easy coping with one person all the way.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm, serious issue.bia what is Chinyere taking me as sef!

AGB said...

Amen o.

GALORE said...

So far men can have side chicks, there is nothing wrong if a lady decides to have "side guy"better called "reserve back up".....Anything fit happen, so d lady fit quick port ooo.....no time to check time!!!


Abbi, no be proverbs say....."don't put all ur eggs in one basket"?....Lol



@Galore

GALORE said...

Lol....my dear....if u belong to that "category" as a guy....u no fit know now......he he he

Abbi no be woman again?...
Una men,una dey always think say na una wise pass bah?



@Galore

Unknown said...

Abi + may God continue to strengthen u

Mercy said...

Her opinion

jbankzE said...

Hmmmmmmm,good thinking....

~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~

Unknown said...

Married the rich guy and left d side guy abi. #bomb dey DAT ya head

Anonymous said...

You sure do not need a Side, or Back-up Boyfriend, You have God, and your Career to keep you Strong and Busy!. Focus!

Unknown said...

Mehhhn... A Whooping FOUR step kids to do wid! Pheeww!

Anonymous said...

Men think they're the only ones who can play the game.

Anonymous said...

our 'side man'

But u don't want the guy to have a side chick or back up plan(s)? That 'd be cheating right? SMH! All you women deserves to rot in hell.

Unknown said...

Sometimes, it is very scary as to what women are facing in this world ,having a reserve means, you doubting your place in your main mans life due to so many ciscumstances......ASK TIWA SAVAGE na...Na dem dey turn BOSS And marry someone who they can control

Unknown said...

I TOTALLY BUY HER OPINION... ESPECIALLY IN A NATION LIKE MINE....ONE NEEDS LIKE 4 ATLEAST ..LOLXX

Anonymous said...

women who allow people to get to them...

Unknown said...

Nigerians hate truth o! Most Naija guys knw dat dey r reserved bfs but dey don't mind...they kip hoping for them to brk up or hav issues so they can be d main guy! d same way guys hav sside chics, dats d same way girls hav side boys too! Don't put all ur eggs in one basket

Unknown said...

Linda so u get spare tire too,, ok oh now we don dey see foul nyash

Unknown said...

Her choice..good for her...

omowunmi okunti said...

Oops! She tried o. May God give her her own kids

Unknown said...

Hope she's saying the truth

Unknown said...

Tank GOd for ur life. ITs easy as a single father. Hope it last

MEREZE said...

Just like my ex-hoe, she was using me as reserve, bitch didnt want me to fvck her, but another guys could be doing the bidding. We don wise up now. Woe unto any girl wey wan use me do bench again

Unknown said...

good step mom

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